Makin' Friends

[bloodyrosemccoy]

I've made a new friend.

This weekend our family hosted the sort-of-monthly block get-together, and had quite a turnout. Inluded on the guest list was the family from a little ways down the street, which includes a three-and-a-half-year-old girl with a love of purple and a burning (freezing?) aspiration to be Elsa from Frozen.* And Mini-Elsa decided that I was going to be her friend.

So I spent most of the party hanging out with a tiny girl in a sun hat, bonding over having a little brother (as I am a grownup, she is still trying to wrap her head around the idea that I could have a little brother in the same way she does), wishing we could stay up later, the best color for making necklaces (purple), and of course the discovery that we have similar tastes in books such as Little Red Riding Hood and Fancy Nancy.** Then we blew bubbles for her little brother to chase. It was possibly the most fun I've ever had at one of these block parties, largely because it got me out of the endless Moebius strip of small talk I always have to make with friendly neighbors.***

When I wasn't being dragged around by Mini-Elsa, I got to chat with her mother, who is pretty cool. She's about my age, and instead of repeating the endless litany of "I got a job at the planetarium. Still trying to sell my book NO I AM NOT GOING TO SELF-PUBLISH" I got to talk her about books Mini-Elsa might like (stint as a librarian finally pays off!) and, of course, THE FAAAAAAIRIES. She got pretty excited about that one. I think there's going to be a fairy party in about a month.

It's always a surprise to be reminded that I can be good with kids. Heartening for the upcoming job, but it still catches me off-guard sometimes.


*She didn't want to wear her sun hat. "Elsa wears her sun hat in the summer," her mother pointed out.

**I'm not kidding; I LOVE Fancy Nancy. She is allowed to be girly and bedazzly as well as smart and curious and knowledgeable. She reminds me a lot of of my sister at that age.

***The next person who suggests that I self-publish The Book I'm Trying To Sell gets barbecue turkey meatballs poured down their pants.

Comments

[badgermirlacca.livejournal.com]

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[padparadscha.livejournal.com]

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[badgermirlacca.livejournal.com]

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