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bloodyrosemccoy ([personal profile] bloodyrosemccoy) wrote2013-05-20 10:42 am

This Weekend I:

Got to meet a high school friend's 18-month-old baby and catch up with the friend herself. Also got the third-person third-degree which my friend translated for her no-English mother, who wanted to know:

1. If I was married,
2. Why the hell I am not married, and
3. When I plan to get married.

It is impossible to explain to some people that my plan at this point involves:

1. Not getting married.
2. Ever.

Around here, it's a problem I run into a lot. People do not comprehend the concept. I get a lot of reassurance that it's okay, one of these days I'll meet the right guy and settle down and get married and THEN my life will be fulfilled. I just smile and say "Maybe" and change the subject. It's better than when they start telling me how I should go about finding that man, anyway.

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Went to Museum Crash Course. Don't climb on the exhibits, don't smear peanut butter on ancient artifacts, and please accept that the museum looks at evolution as, you know, A Thing, because--wait, do people seriously get offended at the thought that a museum agrees that evolution happened? Do planetaria have to clarify that they subscribe to the notion that the Earth goes around the sun and not vice versa? God DAMMIT.

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Bought some Fisher Price Starter Plants. I can grow a lot of things from seed, but tomatoes are not any of them.* I've still got to work on getting a bunch of better dirt mixed into the ground before I actually put the plants in, but it's a start.

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Finally got the next installment of Scatterstone properly storyboarded/outlined/thinged. I'm at the point in the middle that's always been a little amorphous in my head. I know kind of what's going to happen, but unlike the previous bits or the stuff near the end, this has been a bit of a jumble of Things That Have To Happen all piled up in a heap waiting to be sorted. I think I got it.

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Watched WAY too much Mythbusters. It's hypnotic, man. Video On Demand has changed how I watch things FOREVER.

As an aside, I think it's funny that over the last few years my TV and music preferences have seesawed. Back in the olden days with CDs and no mp3 players, I was used to listening to an entire album by one artist. Meanwhile, with TV lineups, I could only watch several episodes of a single show if I bought the DVDs or caught a marathon on TV. Now, though, I am used to the shuffle on my iPod, so that two songs in a row by, say, the Doobie Brothers seems counterintuitive--I'm much more used to disparate things like Doobie Brothers - Mannheim Steamroller - Disney. And yet with the availability of streaming, I am dissatisfied if I only get to see one episode of whatever show I'm binging on. It's an interesting shift.

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Anyway. MY POINT IS, that's what I did this weekend. Howbout you?


*Though that's not stopping me from at least trying again. This time I'm using the best window in the house, which counterintuitively is in the basement near my own Bat Cave. I'm not sure if that's what's doing it or if it's one of the other changes I made, but goddamn if the various seeds I'm sprouting aren't the happiest seedlings EVER.

[identity profile] dinogrrl.livejournal.com 2013-05-20 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
A) If you're not married, you're asked when you're getting married. If you're married, you get asked when you're having kids. If you have kids...um...yeah I'm not sure what the next question would be.

B) I got that sort of nonsense at the museum in South Dakota. "Why do your professors teach evolution here?" "...because they don't think anything else is credible enough?" "Y UR PROFESSORS STUPID?" "...I'm sorry, what?"

C) That's how my playlist goes. Techno - Christmas - early music - rap - etc. I get made fun of for that for some reason.

D) My weekend was full of work, listening to a concert, and sleep.

[identity profile] ellixis.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
If you have offspring, the nosy people ask when you're planning on having your next one. When I say I'm done now, I get a variety of shocked and disbelieving comments. The one that annoys me the most is "But don't you want her to have a little brother or sister to keep her company?"

[identity profile] dinogrrl.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Ah yes. I should have remembered that.
I think I'd have to say "My sister/brother and I beat each other into bloody pulps every time we're in the same room together. Sounds like good company to me :D"

[identity profile] ellixis.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Mostly I just say "No," and smile at them. They often don't really know how to respond to that, which is satisfying.

[identity profile] dinogrrl.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
lol that works too.
When people ask me if I'm having kids, I say "I can't even take care of myself." Which is true enough :p. But it seems to work, as they just laugh a little and then leave me alone.

[identity profile] padparadscha.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
Usually I respond with "Oh, that's cool." Of course, I do it right after they say "I'm not interested in having more" because that seems like the least obnoxious reply, and also because it is, in fact, totally cool.

[identity profile] ellixis.livejournal.com 2013-05-21 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I appreciate your approval and non-obnoxiousness! (For clarification: that's a sincere statement, no sarcasm in it. People being disapproving at my life choices is tiring, but people being approving, especially people I like, makes me a bit happy.)