Bizarre, isn't it? And they don't seem to understand that I find their desire to find someone equally weird--the difference is, I don't lecture people on how sad it is that they prefer something different. I should point out that my sister is cool about it even if she doesn't understand it, but a lot of people seem to be offended that I don't burningly desire a significant other. Or people regard me with pity that I'll be all alone because that is, apparently, Teh Sad.

Have you ever been accused of just claiming sour grapes?