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bloodyrosemccoy ([personal profile] bloodyrosemccoy) wrote2008-11-09 05:29 pm

Shift

I’d just like to point out that, even though they hurt my feelings, my parents are still pretty cool. Dad felt so bad that I was unhappy that he took me to a bookstore yesterday and chatted the whole way.* Today he came home and announced that things were going to change around here: we will all revise our paradigms so that we’re not working as parents and children, but as adults who recognize each other’s goals and work to help each other. This will become like an artists’ institution or co-op, where we all contribute and help each other.

I think what he’s trying to say is he’s sorry he hurt my feelings and he knows I wanna be a writer.

My dad is actually a pretty sweet guy if you know how to interpret him properly.

Also, he’s planning on implementing this with 妹, who is, without qualms or backward glances, leaving UC Santa Cruz at the semester. The little sister is, to put it very mildly, not pleased with what she’s found there so far. This weekend marked yet another stupid drunken orgy party in her apartment, one of way too many, and she is not putting up with this horse shit any longer.** She is going to wait out the semester and come home to go to school at the U of Utah. I told her she can consider this her term abroad. “No kidding,” was her reply.

So the family dynamic will shift again, and we’ll all keep going. And I’ve got a dad shifting into manic and my Batman-watching partner back. This is gonna be kinda fun, actually.


*Dad chattering is an event on par with Jim Lehrer getting sniffly (which he did on Election Night): this does not happen.

**Warning: Entry is a rant brimful of curses that may make you weep. And it doesn’t even mention the later incident that night when one of her friends, who was not drunk, braved the party only to sustain a large superficial head wound that had妹 wondering if she was going to have to staple a bitch.

[identity profile] bean-bunny.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. I thought I was the only one who hated drunken orgies in college.

[identity profile] chairman-wow.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
D: Your poor sister. The worst I had to content with was people being loud in the corridor at 4 in the morning during exam time. Good thing she's coming home.

A while ago, my mum told me that it didn't feel like she had a daughter anymore when I was around, which confused me for a second, but then she continued "it's more like having an adult best friend to talk to." which was one of the nicest things ever. Conclusion: parents treating you like an adult is win.

[identity profile] flutterbychild.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Some drunkenness is okay, but they seem to take it way too far!

[identity profile] cjtremlett.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
It'll be hard for your folks to get out of the habit of treating you like kids, but they'll learn. It sounds like the blowout/meltdown of a couple of days ago has made for some really positive changes!

And good gods, it's a good thing your sister is leaving. That is just ludicrous!

[identity profile] kittikattie.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
That sounds like some hot mess.
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[personal profile] nobleplatypus 2008-11-10 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Your family is awesome.

Also, dang... people are having really rough first semesters. Your sister isn't the only one packing it in.

[identity profile] neintales.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Hurrah for cool parents and siblings!

I have been driven insane at every college and university I have gone to by the way a majority of students seem to feel they MUST go on absolute drunken binges. I just have never seen the point.

Batman-watching though, now that is FUN!

[identity profile] gwalla.livejournal.com 2008-11-10 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
Glad to hear your 'rents are trying to make up.

I feel sorry for your sister. UC Santa Cruz has a reputation as a party school, which sounds like it was absolutely the wrong fit for her. It's good that she's recognized it soon enough to transfer, instead of suffering in silence and letting academics slip due to misery.

Not all of us in California are egocentric slacker assbites! But yeah Santa Cruz is pretty much booze, bongs, & Boardwalk.